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Two Knotty Boys

JD & Dan began teaching their interactive workshops in 1999, combining a lighthearted humorous style with the educational precision of experienced instructors and lifestyle Doms. The authors of two bestselling how-to bondage books, "Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes" (2007) and "Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes" (2009), Dan and JD are also creators of more than 120 instructional videos available free on their website and easily found re-posted by fans on YouTube.com.

Two Knotty Boys have also been featured on Playboy TV's programs, "Sexcetera" and "69 Sexy Things to Do Before You Die," interviewed on radio and podcasts and in world-wide bondage magazines including "Bondage Magazine" (Germany), "Sniper" (Japan) and "Bound and Gagged" (USA). They have taught at international bondage workshops and appeared in countless live performances. Their rope bondage rigging has been seen adorning models in the work of world renown fetish photographers including Ken Marcus, Z. Maitri, Eric Kroll, Michael Blue, Larry Utley and many others.

 


 

Lee Harrington

Lee Harrington is an eclectic artist, spiritual and erotic educator, gender radical and published author and editor on human sexuality and spiritual experience- including "Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond," "Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé" and the "Toybag Guide to Age Play". He has also worked as an anthology editor on such projects as "Rope, Bondage, and Power."

Well known for his fun and informative approach to education, he approaches sexuality as yet another art to master, or simply an art to enjoy to its fullest!

He has been an active part of the international kink and sex positive communities for over 14 years, and his stories make people laugh while showing you that eroticism can be as serious, sexy, or silly as you make it. Lee's writings and photography have appeared in numerous anthologies including "Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path" (also under his previous pen name, Bridgett Harrington), and his image has been seen everywhere from PlayBoy TV to the pages of Skin Two Magazine. To learn more about Lee visit www.PassionAndSoul.com.

 


 

Cruel Bastard

Cruel Bastard began his journey in the St. Louis kinky community a decade ago. It started with his attending the meetings of a sadly now defunct gateway organization. Having crossed that threshold he never looked back. He pursued both the physical skills and the mental aspects of the power exchange life. He enjoys sharing what he has learned and learning from others both those new to the life and those of greater experience.

Having worked for three decades in industrial maintenance he learned that electricity is to be respected but not feared. Three years ago he acquired his first violet wand and it was lust at first zap. Since that time he has pursued both the history and practical application of this delightfully wicked toy.

 


 

 heather

heather has been active in the lifestyle for over a decade and her passion can be seen through grace, loyalty, protocol, positions and serving in various forms. she has presented at Beat Me, Spanksgiving and various BDSM clubs.

 

she is a member of Springfield Masters and slaves (SMs) and the Rolla Kinksters. Through her experiences, heather is willing to share the power exchange through various means and what it brings to relationships.


Sparkie

 

Sparkie has been in the Leather lifestyle both Gay and Pansexual for 9+ Years. Started out as a sub/pup and has worked His way up to now where he is proud to be a SIR/Daddy now. He was the 2009 Central Plains Leatherboy and First Runner up to International Mr Bootblack in 2008.
 

He is a Member of Mama's Family and is well known around the US as being a Bootblack. He has presented Bootblacking 101 at Beat Me in 2005 and at Eurosbound in Feb of 2010. He is also a Team Leader and Consultant for Temptations Parties which will be a Vendor at Beat Me, Come check us out!! He is proud to Co-Present "Body Worship" with Heather!!

 


 

Ms Cynthia (CM Hurt)

Ms Cynthia's involvement in the sex positive/leather community extends too many areas. She has presented 100’s of educational programs for many BDSM/Leather organizations all across the country on a variety of subjects. She has spent many hours volunteering and working to help build community support and relations on local and national levels.  She is a past Secretary and a past Chairman of the Board of the Leather Leadership Conference and serves on the LLC Emeritus Board. She is an Emeritus Coordinator with Threshold, in Los Angeles. She was honored with the “Mother Earth Award- 2007” by The Orange County Imperial Court and has been inducted into the College of Mentors of the Orange Coast Leather Assembly as well as a recipient of numerous other service awards.

Cynthia does outreach presentations on sexuality, BDSM, body modification and body art at the college level in southern California.  She teaches a series of on going BDSM/Leather related Skills Workshops at her studio for members of her local community that have been successful for over 9 years. 

As an author, some of her not so fictional short stories are published in a collection of short erotic pieces written by women, aptly named CLITERATURE. She has written a series of articles for Body Modification Ezine on temporary and permanent genital modifications. She continues to write.

Her studio practice, CM HURT, in Orange County, Ca, includes piercing, branding, scarification, tattooing, beading and permanent cosmetics. Articles about her work have appeared in Fetish and Taboo magazines and she has been featured in documentaries on the Playboy Channel, BBS One Radio and The Learning Channel. She has worked with the San Diego Museum of Man as a lecturer during their exhibit, Body Ornamentation: Artistic Representations of Self. She is also a guest lecturer for the California Environmental Health Inspectors on the topics of Branding, Artistic Cutting, Health Safety, and Running a Body Art Studio.

Ms Cynthia is recognized as a successful and skillful professional Dominatrix of over 20 years experience. Her ability and enjoyment of all levels and facets allow her great versatility. She loves to play!

 


 

Pairadox

Long time presenter, activist, leader, and practitioner, Pairadox delights in educating others in aspects of this incredible BDSM lifestyle.  He's presented at conferences and workshops across the country on topics ranging from Fireplay to Humor in the Dungeon to Dealing with Energy Vampires. 

Pairadox was a Board member in National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF), on the Institute for Twenty-first Century Relationships (ITCR,), the foundation for NCSF. He also served as the coordinator for the Kink-Aware Professionals project at NCSF, for which he was awarded the NCSF Volunteer of the Year award in 2008.  He has served on the boards of local bdsm groups such as Riverbound (of Iowa and Illinois), and volunteered with other aspects of the lifestyle.  Pairadox lives and loves in Alaska, which means it is safe to do fireplay outside 6 months out of the year!

He's crossed over the aisle this year, and is serving as Presenter Coordinator for Northern Exposure 2010 in Anchorage, AK, this August 2022.

 


 

christina


Two weeks before Spanksgiving ’09, christina was a young woman almost completely new to BDSM, and in the midst of full-blown sub frenzy. She agreed to fly thousands of miles to be with a lecherous older man who claimed to have “10+ years in the lifestyle." She submitted with few limits. Her first real scene consisted of way-out edge play, her second left her marked from shoulders to knees. In a city where she knew no one except the man who had her at his mercy, she was stripped, collared, branded, beaten, whipped, shocked, suctioned, and lit on fire. Not only did she survive, but she loved every minute of it. That weekend wasn’t about popping cherries, it was about making cherries jubilee!

From being a complete newbie in November, christina has grown in her lifestyle, and is now looking forward to co-presenting a session
called “From Zero to Sixty – how to jump into the lifestyle without
drowning”.

 


 

 Jay Wiseman

Jay Wiseman has over 35 years of experience in BDSM and was one of the early pioneers and builders of the BDSM community in the San Francisco area. He continues to be heavily involved, both in his local area and nationally, as an SM author, educator, mentor, workshop leader, video producer, expert witness, and activist. Noted for being both an exceptionally knowledgeable and highly entertaining presenter, he is very much in demand and has presented on various aspects of relationships and sexuality in more than 50 cities in the United States and Canada . In 2007, Black Rose presented him with the Vaughn Keith National Educator Award.

Jay is the author of the frequently recommended book “SM 101: A Realistic Introduction” and the founder of the publishing company that later became Greenery Press. His book, “Jay Wiseman’s Erotic Bondage Handbook” is widely hailed as the book that sets the standard of fundamental knowledge for this practice. His instructional videos on rope bondage are excellent resources for both beginners and experienced bondage practitioners. His most recent book, “The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies” provides crucial information to both players and dungeon monitors. He is currently working on a number of books and videos.

Jay holds a first-degree black belt in Tae Kwon Do, is a member of Mensa, and lived in San Francisco ’s Haight-Ashbury district during the Sixties. A former ambulance crewman with years of experience, and recipient of the highest Red Cross commendation for emergency action, Jay now teaches classes in basic and advanced emergency medical care for BDSM clubs and other groups. After receiving his law degree in 2005 and passing the bar exam in 2006, he sometimes works as a part-time law school professor. His areas of special legal interest include providing legal support for alternative communities, teaching bar exam preparation, search and seizure law, and conflict resolution.

My new videos -- "Erotic Bondage For Beginners," "Tight Immobilizing Bondage," and "Wait Till I Get My Hands On Him" -- are now out. His website is, predictably, www.jaywiseman.com.

 


 

Goddess Lakshimi

Goddess Lakshimi is a loving lifestyle Domina with more  than twenty years in the lifestyle.  Where she has explored many aspects of S/M, D/S and B/D. She has a wide spectrum of talents ranging from the sensual to the intense. She is a sensual sadist, who has been given the nickname “Mistress Safety” for her commitment to safety in the BDSM scene.

Goddess Lakshimi is the proud author of her book "Safe Beginnings," now in its third edition. She was Ms World Leather 2003. Winner of the 2004 Vi Johnson Award for Outstanding Leadership. Winner of Pantheon of Leather's Community Choice Award 2005. She is committed to lecturing and doing demonstrations on a variety of Leather and BDSM topics. 

Sweetlimey or Jeremy is a male slave contracted for life and married to the Goddess Lakshimi. He is her life mate and now her husband. Since he came to live with her they have lived the BDSM Lifestyle at all times. His whole focus in life is to look after “Madam” to serve and obey her. He has been in the Lifestyle for  approximately 18 years. They are a polyamorous, bisexual household. He is always in slave mode but loves to top men. He really enjoys teaching formal Victorian dinning and actually serving formal dinners to groups of people.

 


 

 Ms. Regina

Ms Regina has been a member of StL3, Inc. since 2002. She met her sweetheart Roxy at a Munch that year. She has presented various subjects like “Caning,” “Spanking”, “Genital Torture” and “The Sticky Side of Temporary Piercings.” She enjoys teaching and the company of friends in the lifestyle. Roxy and Ms Regina have just celebrated their 5 year anniversary together, and they remember the day the exchanged vows and honeymooned with the Kinky Krowd they love so much at Beat Me 9.

 


 

Jsin

Coming to the lifestyle through trial and error, Jsin knows what it is to do things the wrong way, learning was and still is his goal in life. Attention to detail in his play makes all the difference in the world. Learning to play since 1996 with his wife, Faye has been an exciting journey.

Joining the public scene in 2004 as an attendee of Spanksgiving, Jsin has climbed the ladder from attending local events to producing nationally known events.  Life long area resident of St. Louis Jason now produces events such as Beat Me in St. Louis and Spanksgiving.

 


 

Lord Prophett

Lord Prophett began His Lifestyle journey in 1999 as the result of helping a good friend express her submissive desires. In January of 2000 He joined a local group and began exploring his own Dominant role. Shortly thereafter he began attending Lifestyle events in Oklahoma City, Kansas, and Texas. In mid 2000 he formed The House of Darkwatch as an informal gathering of like-minded friends and family, founded on the beliefs of honor, acceptance, and strong Family. In September of that same year he debuted Prophett's Toy Bag at Beyond Vanilla in Dallas. Since that time Prophett has been fortunate to attend over 90 events as a vendor, presenter, contestant, judge, or as a tally master. In May of 2006 he was honored to win the title of Mr. Great Plains Olympus.

Over the years Lord Prophett has grown and embraced the Leather Lifestyle. He strongly believes in the sense of Community and Family and has developed the credo of "Honor those who have come before and guide those who come behind". He continues to explore the Lifestyle believing there is always something new to learn, and enjoys traveling, teaching, mentoring and being active in various communities and charities.

Based in Oklahoma he lives the role of Master with his slave rayna while pursuing his love of M/s, sadism and edge play. He currently a member of WOOLF, The Oklahoma Barony of the Imperial Court System, Mama's Family, NLA-OKC, NLA-I, TDS & Co Founder of First Sundays. For more information visit The House of Darkwatch website at www.Prophett.net.

 


 

 

 

     

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